Hello, I'm Vanessa Reiser, a licensed clinical social worker, author, Ironman athlete, and survivor of narcissistic abuse. As a therapist, I have dedicated my life to raising awareness for narcissistic abuse. I have run across NY, NJ, MA, CT, and RI in a wedding dress for narcissistic abuse.
What is Narcissistic Abuse? Find my book "Narcissistic Abuse; A Therapist's Guide to Identifying, Escaping, and healing from Toxic and Manipulative People here: https://a.co/d/0HB3up7
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Our History
Our History
Our History
- New York State (2021): My inaugural run covered 285 miles from Oswego to Manhattan over 12 days (approximately 23 miles per day). Starting on May 17, I pounded the pavement through rural landscapes and urban centers, ending in Washington Heights. This epic trek not only tested my physical limits but also raised over $200,000 for survivor
- New York State (2021): My inaugural run covered 285 miles from Oswego to Manhattan over 12 days (approximately 23 miles per day). Starting on May 17, I pounded the pavement through rural landscapes and urban centers, ending in Washington Heights. This epic trek not only tested my physical limits but also raised over $200,000 for survivor services, garnering coverage from outlets like People Magazine and The New York Times.
- New Jersey: Building on New York's success, I traversed the Garden State in a wedding dress, marking the first-ever such run across NJ. This journey highlighted the prevalence of narcissistic abuse in suburban and urban settings, connecting with local support groups along the way.
- Massachusetts: My run across the Bay State took me through historic towns like Boston and Worcester, blending colonial charm with modern cityscapes. It emphasized how narcissistic abuse affects diverse communities, from academia to working-class families.
- Connecticut (2023): Over two days (June 1-2), I ran across the Constitution State, covering its compact yet challenging terrain. This event focused on family court reforms, as narcissistic abusers often weaponize legal systems against survivors.
- Rhode Island (2025): My most recent run on May 30 spanned about 30 miles across the Ocean State, from its western border to Providence. As the fifth annual Narcissistic Abuse Run, it drew virtual and in-person participants, raising awareness about the "death by a thousand cuts" nature of this abuse.
Our Mission
Our History
Our History
At Narcissistic Abuse Run, our mission is to raise awareness about narcissistic abuse, empower survivors, and drive systemic change through transformative action. Founded by Vanessa Reiser, a licensed clinical social worker, Ironman athlete, and survivor, we use ultra-marathon runs across states—undertaken in a wedding dress—to symbolize
At Narcissistic Abuse Run, our mission is to raise awareness about narcissistic abuse, empower survivors, and drive systemic change through transformative action. Founded by Vanessa Reiser, a licensed clinical social worker, Ironman athlete, and survivor, we use ultra-marathon runs across states—undertaken in a wedding dress—to symbolize the reclamation of power from the false promises and emotional manipulation of narcissistic abuse. Through these runs, we aim to educate communities, fund specialized support for survivors via Tell A Therapist, and advocate for reforms in systems like family courts that often exacerbate victims’ trauma. By combining physical endurance with advocacy, we strive to break the silence around this insidious form of domestic violence, support healing, and inspire a movement toward a future free from abuse.
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